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Post by Darth Wong » Mon Jan 10, 2005 9:21 pm

Hey guys (and girls), i am aware a man whom, well, let us simply say he's perhaps maybe not done well he can't find a girl for himself in life, and. The thing is that in their desperation, he installed with somebody into the Philippines on the internet. Now here is the crazy part: he claims he's got currently consented to marry her (after just once you understand her for a couple days rather than having also met her once) and intends to get here in March to enter wedlock. I would personally believe that "reckless" is an understatement here.

Anyhow, first thing that came in your thoughts was that she wished to utilize him to have citizenship right here. But are here even greater potential risks that i ought to be warning him about? Do some of you realize of every frauds with this, like individuals kidnapping the unwary groom that is would-be he turns up to marry this girl he is never ever met? I have heard about that in a few instances with all the Nigerian money-laundering scam.

I suppose an optimist would argue that possibly this thing that is whole legit, but We'm an excessive amount of a cynic to get that. I do believe this guy is planning to get scammed or even even worse. If any one of you realize of any horror tales involving this kind of thing, let me know and maybe i will scare him using them.

Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:20 am

Well, I do not have tales, but i'd be EXTREMELY carful about this (while you are already). Your buddy has absolutely nothing limiting him from going, but i might decide to decide to try EVERYTHING feasible getting him to believe it over.

I'm 99% yes this example will perhaps not come out inside the benefit, just how numerous girls really desire to simply fulfill a guy on the internet and marry him?. Many likley, she'll dump him the moment she becomes clear and american that is free or something like that else is tucked up her sleeve.

Post by smithy_dll » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:42 am

We thought Darth Wong had been canadian,

Well i might need to accept using the caution and presuming it really is a scam. No proof is had by him she actually exists, wether she's actually a lady, had been constantly a lady, and extremely really really loves him.

Whats additionally wear may be the wedding is finished here, rather than in a secure place that is democratic would not tollerate any type of mal-bahaviour.

He will be using a few dangers here,

Post by erk » Tue Jan 11, 2005 8:56 am

Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:00 am

Well, i will be perhaps not too against internet relationship, but, he should at LEAST arrive at better know her MUCH. Exchange pictures, talk from the phone, or make use of cam (at the very least to be sure its a girl your to! That is talking).

But actually, internet relationship can be carried out, but we dont think you ought to get hitched after only once you understand them for a couple months.

Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:01 am

Post by Anon » Wed Jan 12, 2005 thai cupid profile 4:11 am

I believe that online Dating just works if you are within the same town, perhaps state/region, perhaps maybe maybe not various nations. Like was sa natural girl whom truly desires to proceed through along with it. What amazes and scares me personally during the exact same time is that he's had pretty much a similar thing occur to him.

Quick variation: do not also consider going here to marry her/him.

Post by Fubonis » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:36 am

Fool me when, shame on, pity for you. Fool me twice--can't again get fooled.

He never will if he has not learned from the first experience. Perhaps you should make the most of him before some foreigner can.

Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 6:58 am

Contrary to popular belief, after speaking with him, he generally seems to think that the blunder he made out of the girl that is previous in perhaps maybe not marrying her, so she felt no genuine dedication to him. Whatever you can perform is move your eyes.

Post by programhouze » Wed Jan 12, 2005 1:01 pm

In any event you appear at it, the man is or must certanly be "hard up" or something like that. I think the "Mail-order bride" deal is B.S. And a complete waste of individual and time that is emotional.

Just like the other individual stated, internet dating should be through with your personal area that is general. There was instances when men and women have met from around the world and hitched. But, less than those couples which have met inside their areas that are own.